Conditioning vs. Consent: Why Intimate Boundaries Can Feel Confusing (Especially for Women)

Many women struggle with low sexual desire, but what’s often overlooked is how trauma, cultural conditioning, and emotional disconnection shape that experience. In my work as a sex positive therapist, I see how sexual boundaries become blurred when we’re taught to prioritize others over ourselves. This post explores the difference between consent and compliance, how to recognize signs of a boundary rupture, and why desire can’t thrive without safety. Whether you're navigating intimacy after trauma, redefining what consent means in your body, or simply curious about how to reclaim your voice—this is for you.